Monday, May 4, 2009

Easy to Feel Poor and Miserable - Fix It!

Through personal growth you may arrive at a self-awareness that temporarily makes you feel poor and miserable. Keep your motivation and look back at the successful goal setting that got you living consciously. Self improvement evokes reflection on things you don't want. Yet negative emotions have value. They inspire further commitment to you improving your well being.

A healthy lifestyle includes the following:

*** happy relationships
*** satisfying work
*** good food
*** restful sleep
*** regular fun
*** freedom from addictions
*** compassion for others without the "fix everybody" syndrome

Those are general qualities of life attainable by many people. Conscious living, conscious eating, and sharing your better self with others are realistic goals by which to improve your life.

However, if you are seriously into self improvement, there is a basic premise here that in and of itself can create self-sabotage. "Self-improvement" may not be the most productive viewpoint for you.

***I am not good enough. There is something about me (or many things) that need to be fixed. So is the focus necessarily self improvement, or is the improvement related to turning your attention to what you really want and deserve?

The best thing, I think, about using The Law of Attraction is that you give up the "I need fixing" part. You spend some time each day focusing and vibration with (or closer to) what it is you want, and you do not get into fixing yourself.

And the main thing is, allowing goodness to come to you. You have to vibrate with I AM GOOD ENOUGH for the good things.

You get what you put out, so you cannot be putting out that you need fixing. So there is a trap in all of this if you do not recognize it. Just know that it is there, and do your deliberate creation.

Since money is such an esteemed measure of self worth, failure to attract money can feel like - failure! If, in your subconscious thoughts you do not approve or even like yourself, vibrating with abundance is difficult. It feels fake to try.

Use the power of affirmations, meditate, daydream, and get away from feeling poor and miserable.

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