Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Positive Thinking Success - Make Life Better

The Law of Attraction works for us if we know how to give up resistance (negative emotions) and focus on positive emotions. One of the human factors that makes this difficult is that the emotional bottom line perpetuated in our society is we are never good enough, everything is our fault, and only perfectionism is tolerated. If this were not true, we wouldn't have therapists, depression, cults, or even religions. We would love ourselves as God does.

By design, society is competitive. Only one person can get first prize. But that only matters if you compete in that particular way.

If your goal is to feel good, feel genuine self love and a deep love, concern and compassion for other beings, and have that acceptance mirrored by all the goodness that shows up in your life, then there is no competition to lose. You can get out of the adrenaline driven psychology of success and actually succeed.

What is the path of least resistance? How do you escape the embedded patterns that have become normal? How do you float downstream peacefully when someone else is running a whirlpool machine nearby? Or a whole country or the whole world is creating emotional/economic/physical disasters every day?

You can start recognizing a little bit less resistance, more acceptance. For one thing, acceptance means that you acknowledge a situation. Now you can change it. You can change your life direction this way.

What is, is. If you find yourself in turmoil the most important thing is to dissolve the turmoil before you jump into action. Deep breathing, good water, and look at beauty. Go outside if you have a garden, or look outside at some greenery if that is what you can do. Allowing overwhelm to fade allows you to think more clearly. This will assist your active use of The Law of Attraction. Now you can start imagining what you want to be your next outcome, focus your intention, and enjoy your idea.

Savoring, simmering your idea strengthens your vibration of attraction. Now you are on your way because now the universe is responding to your uplifted feeling. The universe is always responding to you. While you watch the stock news, the flood news, the insurance advertisements. Got that remote?

We are brought up to doing something about it NOW! Grab the bull by the horns and get going. Sweat out a plan!

How does that feel? What is the vibration in that attitude? You see where you can slow down a bit, and get into the feeling that you want to deliberately create to be a result of your life actions, even if you do not know the details.

Negative emotions are temporarily motivating. You can instantly identify that this is not how you want life to feel, and take your first deep breath. Knowing that you have The Law of Attraction in constant creation, just say loudly to yourself, "I'm changing this now". If someone is backing you into a corner and yelling what they're saying probably is not important, but keep breathing and keep changing your turmoil that way. When they are done, ask politely "could you please put that in a memo?".

Positive emotions are your key to a deliberately created life! By design of culture, the human factors and current psychology dictates complexity, and tangling with analysis. You may as well fall down a rabbit hole.

The path of least resistance is to be like a little child. Imagine, and FEEL how it could be, to make life better.

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